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  • Someteimes POLICIES just get in the way

    Don’t believe me…just watch this guy.

    [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzE-IMaegzQ]

    If you are a leader, be careful that the policies you make are not just representations of mistakes you have made in the past. Make sure that they function to actually help and promote the results you actually want. Otherwise, get rid of them.

    HT: Tom deBruyn

  • Book Review: How the Mighty Fall by Jim Collins

    When I read Jim Collin’s book, Good to Great I felt it was a game changer for anyone interested in leading their organization from Good to Great.  I personally learned so much about how to build healthy and productive teams from that book that I was very interested to hear what Jim Collin’s had to say about how some of the greatest companies in America we knew or know fall, and also how to “Never Give In.”

    If you want to read my review of that book from several years ago you can visit it here:  Phil’s Book Review of Jim Collin’s Good to Great

    A first look at the title of this book can give you the impression that this is a book totally committed to criticizing how great companies have fallen over the years.  What you’ll be surprised about is Jim Collin’s great care to communicate to the reader that he is writing this book so that good companies be wary of the things that cause good companies to fall as well as offer up opinions based on hundreds of years of data that suggests how (even if you are already in decline) you can see positive movement.

    When I read books like these (meaning leadership, management, or organizational leadership books from a non-religious perspective) I am always asking, “What can I learn from this book that can help me lead well as a Pastor?”

    Here are some interesting quotes in Jim Collin’s book that stood out to me (my thoughts in RED):

    • “All happy families are alike; each unhappy family is unhappy in it’s own way.” – Anna Karenina
    • I’ve concluded that there are more ways to fall than to become great.
    • Luck and chance play a role in many successful outcomes and those who fail to acknowledge the role luck may have played in their success-and thereby overestimate their own merit and capabilities-have succumbed to hubris. As a follower of Christ, I see it less as luck and chance and more of God’s providence, which still should keep me from thinking that any success I accomplish is less about me and more about God’s sovereignty.
    •  Hubris is defined as excessive pride that brings down a hero, or…outrageous arrogance that inflicts suffering upon the innocent.
    • The real lesson is that Circuit City left itself exposed by not revitalizing its electronic superstores with as much passion and intensity as when it first began building that business two decades earlier. Reminds me what was written to the church in Ephesus in Revalation 2.
    • No company can consistently grow revenues faster than its ability to get enough of the right people to implement that growth and still become a great company. Reminds me of my study through a book called Deliberate Simplicity (click to read my review).  
    • When bureaucratic rules erode an ethic freedom and responsibility within a framework of core values and demanding standards, you’ve become infected with the disease of mediocrity.
    • Every person in a key seat should be able to respond to the question, ” What do you do?” not with a job title, but with a statement of personal responsibility.
    • Our research across multiple studies (Good to Great, Built to Last, How the Mighty Fall, and our ongoing research into what it takes to prevail in turbulent environments) shows a distinct negative correlation between building great companies and going outside for a CEO.

    I could go on and on. This was a really insightful book.  MUCH shorter that his last book Good to Great. If you’re involved in organizational leadership at any level I highly recommend this book for your consideration.

  • Everything? Really?

    I want to be known as a man after God’s own heart. It’s the highest goal of my life. I also want to be known as the man who “will do everything [God wants] him to do” or as another translation puts it, a man “who will do all my will.”

    While that is understandably noble of me, my interpretation of how that looks in reality and how it is actualized in scripture oftentimes gets off track. Let me explain.

    Whenever I read the scriptures I am inspired to move from where I am to where I know God wants me to be. The problem is that, like a little kid eager to put together his new model kit, I too often assume the process (the instructions) of how I am to reach my goal (making the model car) and passionately try to work towards the finished product of my desire.

    My problem is that I too often assume the HOW before completely understanding the WHY.

    I don’t know about you, but oftentimes I confuse the phrase “who did everything God wanted him to do” with “EVERYTHING he did was what God wanted him to do.” And what happens when I find that my life choices are inconsistent with what God’s Word defines as Godly behaviors? I start to find myself discouraged and begin to feel there is no hope for me being a man after God’s own heart.

    But fortunately, God’s Word is there to put me in my place.

    When I read Acts 13:22 – understanding the context of David’s life – I realize that even despite David’s sins and imperfections, God had a way of accomplishing all his will through David. Not only that, David was still considered a man after God’s own heart.

    But why?

    Because “everything” doesn’t mean “EVERYTHING” when our perspectives are not right.

    Today I am encouraged that the HOW (works) is not as important as the WHY (love for God).

    (Don’t misunderstand me…I fully believe and affirm the theological implications of James 2)

    When you find a continuous, committed, and passionate love for God – even when you’re caught with your hand in the cookie jar – you can be remembered as a person after God’s own heart and you will be positioned so all of God’s will is accomplished through you.

    Psalm 103:8-18
    8 The LORD is compassionate and gracious,
    slow to anger, abounding in love.

    9 He will not always accuse,
    nor will he harbor his anger forever;

    10 he does not treat us as our sins deserve
    or repay us according to our iniquities.

    11 For as high as the heavens are above the earth,
    so great is his love for those who fear him;

    12 as far as the east is from the west,
    so far has he removed our transgressions from us.

    13 As a father has compassion on his children,
    so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him;

    14 for he knows how we are formed,
    he remembers that we are dust.

    15 As for man, his days are like grass,
    he flourishes like a flower of the field;

    16 the wind blows over it and it is gone,
    and its place remembers it no more.

    17 But from everlasting to everlasting
    the LORD’s love is with those who fear him,
    and his righteousness with their children’s children-

    18 with those who keep his covenant
    and remember to obey his precepts.

  • Book Review: Visioneering by Andy Stanley

    I absolutely LOVE reading books regarding leadership, vision, etc.  A couple of weeks ago I finished reading Andy Stanley’s book, Visioneering “God’s blueprint for developing and maintaining vision.”  While this book could be already considered “old” I found myself totally captured by the relevancy of it’s content for today.

    I’ve ready many books regarding vision and leadership.  The ones by Christian Authors usually do a great job of connecting principles of leadership and vision with scriptural truth.  What I fell in love with from the beginning of Visioneering was that Andy connect scripture with leadership and vision truths.  In other words, instead of making his book about principles of leadership and vision with supporting scriptures, he takes scripture and from scripture helps you understand the obvious principles of leadership and vision that God has already established in the examples of His word.

    Good stuff!

    I don’t want to give the whole book away, so you’re going to have to read it yourself, but here are some of my favorite highlights from the book.

    • When hopes become realities it is easy to shift our faith onto the thing we have dreamed of and off the One who was the source of our provision.
    • A vision does not necessarily require immediate action.  But it will probably require some in-depth investigation.
    • Vision requires courage and confidence.  It requires launching out as if you were absolutely assured of the outcome.
    • The people who make a difference in this world commit to what could be before they know where the money is coming from…Money usually follows vision.  It rarely happens the other way around.
    • …be careful not to allow the pursuit of your vision to be replaced with crisis management
    • Visionaries must be influencers if they are going to see their visions through from start to finish.  You must be able to move people from where they are to where you believe they could and should be.
    • Moral authority is the credibility you earn by walking your talk.  It is the relationship other people see between what you say and what you do.
    • Moral authority is what makes you a leader worth following.
    • Moral authority is NOT a method…genuine moral authority is not something a leaders sets out to develop in order to become a better leader or to gain influence with people.
    • More often than not, it is good things that have the greatest potential to distract you from the best things, the vision things.

    This book, in my opinion, is a must read for every leader.  I almost loved this book more than Andy Stanley’s Next Generation Leader, thought I would recommend both.

  • Hugging your neighbor’s wife


    Yesterday i found myself both uncomfortable and embarrassed.  Have you ever felt that way?

    Yesterday I found myself hugging my neighbor’s wife.

    Maybe I should give you some background.  As I was working on my yard, my next door neighbor’s wife came out to work on hers.  She’s a really nice lady- a little very shy – but friendly none the less.

    On a side note, my wife and I had noticed that we haven’t seen her husband around in a while.  Don’t get us wrong, we are good neighbors, but we’re definitely not “nosey nieghbors.”  We assumed a couple of different scenarios, but never really asked.  We figured we would find that answer out someday, so no need to create a potentially awkward situation.

    Well…the awkward situation found me.

    The gap in between kindly saying hi to my neighbor’s wife and me getting back to heading towards trimming my yard is filled with boring descriptions of me describing in detail the proper use of weed and feed and all that jazz short.  What happened next totally caught me off guard.

    As I walked away to go back to trimming my yard, in a timid, yet slightly raised voice she said,

    “Thanks…you know it’s been tough since my husband died”

    DIED?  Her husband died?  I turned around and all I could say was I am sorry.  I asked when it happened and she told me how he passed last summer.  He had gone in for shoulder pain and the doctor originally thought it was some type of arthritis.  But when the treatment he prescribed wasn’t working, they went back.  This time they took some x-rays, and things didn’t look right.  When they took a CT scan they found out why.

    Cancer had overtaken the bone marrow in his arm – and was actually spreading all throughout his body.  From the day they heard that news, until his death was only 4 months.

    I was embarrassed because I didn’t ask what happened to him when we noticed he was gone.  Being that they were about the same age as our parents (and also have a son old enough to be my brother), I kind of naturally assumed a number of different situations: they were separated or he had moved back to California for work.

    Then I became uncomfortable.  I didn’t know what to say, so I simply asked if I could pray with her.  She said yes.  And as I extended my hand to pray, this short little Chinese lady reached up, hugged my neck, and began to cry on my shoulder.  As I prayed with her the embarrassment and uncomfortablity that once clouded my emotions was overcome by compassion and love.

    My family and I have been feeling the Lord challenging us towards living our lives with a more missional mindset/paradigm, I am beginning to see how God begins to ordain open doors towards living a “great commission” life and I believe he is opening these doors because we are asking for it.

    And that was my day.

    How was yours?

  • What to do when “Who You Are” is not “Who You Were”

    I knew a guy who had a problem.  He had really turned his life around – really.  The problem was, no one believed that who he now was could be possible because he had built such a long history of himself based on who he was.

    Check his story out here.

    Can you relate?

    If you are a follower of Christ, you have the awesome opportunity to be a person who the Lord is continually “transforming” (Romans 12). The problem is – that even those close to you – will sometimes see you in the light of who you were instead of who you now are.

    My Advice?

    Be patient with those who may not see the changes for good that God has done in your life. Yes, you may be different and God sees you for who you are, but people are people. They do not have the benefit of seeing as the Lord sees. And for some, they will never have the capacity of forgiveness that the Lord has and will always see you for who you were.

    1 Thessalonians 2:4
    On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts.

  • I like to appear…

    I like to look in shape. So I wear the clothes that are tight in just the right spots and aren’t tight in the spots that…well…would not be right. I talk about how much I can bench press and how many push-ups on an incline I can do. I like to show off how quick I am by demonstrating my agility in short little pickup games of basketball or football. I even eat a healthy meal in front of others and drink only diet soda.

    But the problem is not that I WANT to look in shape. The problem is that I want to be in shape by constantly trying to LOOK in shape. My focus is on how I look and not what I’m dedicated to. To be in shape means that you’ll see the habits of your life in a fundamentally different way.

    You won’t change the way you dress.

    You’ll change the way you live.

    And if you are someone like me, that means you have to change from the inside out.

    It doesn’t help that I sometimes succeed in tricking people into thinking I’ve lost HUGE amounts of weight or have been working out a lot because it just makes me think that I’m reaching my goal of being in shape. The problem is that I just APPEAR to be GETTING in shape – but in reality not actually!

    I know of a guy who had a similar problem.

    He loved being Christian. Funny thing is that he always wasn’t like that. In fact, he was probably the most “Un-Christian” person you would know.

    The truth is that everyone in his hometown knew about him. And it wasn’t that he was a criminal. It was because he was popular! It didn’t matter how rich, or how poor you were, if you were from this guy’s hometown, you knew about him and you wanted to hang with this guy! He was the coolest…but he was not a Christian.

    Then something amazing happened in the guy’s life. All of a sudden there came a moment in time where he realized that life wasn’t all about him and eventually found out about the truth of Christ. And when he believed in Christ and became baptized, he was constantly amazed by all the wonderful things he began to experience and the miracles he witnessed. The thing that captured him the most was seeing these guys, who were totally sold out for God, ministering to people and seeing God’s Holy Spirit enter their lives. He decided right then and there that’s what he wanted to do. He wanted to be a minister just like them.

    Doesn’t sound like he’s got a problem, right? Well, there is! Don’t believe me? Check out what Luke the apostle has to say about this guy

    * (Acts 8:9-24)

    Simon’s problem was that he enjoyed being Christian without actually embracing the change that defines what a Christian is. While his behaviors and beliefs were different, he wasn’t a new creation.

    Being different does not mean you’re a new creation, but being a new creation will mean that things will be different.

    Are you a new creation?

  • The G.O.S.P.E.L

    This is absolutely sick! A must watch…

    [youtube http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tIhGxEdez98?rel=0&w=560&h=349]

  • How to make social media part of your life, not become your life

    There are a lot of people who misunderstand the amount of time it takes to engage in social media.  It is true, that engaging in social media can overcome your life.  But this is true only if social media is part of the “entertainment” of your life.

    There are are probably two types of people who are reading this blog.  Ok, maybe three, but basically there are three types of people who make social media part of their world.  I’ll categorize them as this:

    1. The Consumer: People who read this, follow me on facebook, or follow my tweets are basically doing so because they simply just get a kick out of viewing this information.  They will most likely never comment on any blog post I make.  They won’t leave a note on my wall.  They won’t engage in any dialogue via twitter.  If anything, they occasionally hit that “like” button on facebook.  Their primary use of social media is to see if it’s interesting and to see if it will be interesting long term.
    2. The Promoter: These are the type of people who run into either my blog or twitter because they were searching for a way to make “network connections” or they found me on facebook because we had mutual friends.  These are the people who are less likely to ever read more than the initial blog post or tweet they first were introduced to me by, and for sure will never interact with me on facebook.  The Promoter’s main goal is to tell you what they are up to and how you can get connected to their life.  These usually are singer/songwriters who want you to come to their show, Multi-Level Marketers looking for ways to help you “make money while doing less” (you won’t), or people who want to tell you they just got a new chicken in farmville(yes, there is a guidebook for that game!).
    3. The Philanthropist:  These are people who – even before social media – loved people and approached initiated relationships with an interpersonal mindset.  In other words, these are people who love people.  Even more so, they love to not only share life with others, but also love to learn about life from others.  They not only see that their life experience is something worth sharing, but also believe that gaining knowledge about other people made their life better.  These are the people that move beyond “liking” your posts or just retweeting (RT) everything you tweet.  These are the people who utilize social networking as the way to “stoke the fire” of a healthy relationship already established, or one in the making.

    The honest truth is that you can be all three depending on who you are connecting with.  While I don’t have as many “facebook friends” as I know some have, or “twitter followers” as others – the reality is that there are people I am connected to via social networking that are to me just consumers or promoters.  And vice versa is true.

    Funny thing is that I’ll often go through facebook or twitter and “unfriend” people who I’ve never had an online or personal interaction with.  Then a few months later, this person will send a friend request again.  So to one person I am just a promoter, while at the same time to me they are the consumer.

    But the best usage of social media (and the main reason I utilize it) is to connect interpersonally with people.  In the best case scenario, engaging in social media isn’t a new form of entertainment.  It is a tool for making the connections to want to make with people because….well…you love people!

    What say you?  How do you feel social networking helps or hurts the relationships you make/cultivate?

    Or are you just in it because, in another life, could be stalker and social media helps you do it….legally? πŸ˜‰

  • Final Last Words

    ok…Leona is looking over my shoulder while I write this and just saw the title and said,

    “That isn’t your FINAL last words…”

    She’s right

    Again.

    So I guess I’ll just post something that I’m borrowing from my facebook page and let that speak for itself.

     

    I will do more than belong – I will participate.
    I will do more than care – I will help.
    I will do more than believe – I will practice.
    I will do more than be fair – I will be kind.
    I will do more than forgive – I will forget.
    I will do more than dream – I will work.
    I will do more than teach – I will inspire.
    I will do more than give – I will serve.
    I will do more than live – I will grow.
    I will do more than suffer – I will triumph.
    -William Arthur Ward

    Dear 30’s…here I come! =)