Category: Change

  • Book Review: Developing a Vision for Ministry in the 21st Century by Aubrey Malphurs

    “ok” describes my experience with this book. It is a good read – but not great.  There are a lot of other great books (here, here, or here) on the topic of “vision” that say what Aubrey Malphurs says in a less antiquated way.

    Antiquated?

    Yes…outdated.  Old.  On the verge of irrelevant.  In fact, there is a section of the book that I literally marked in pen:

    “Warning: From here to the end of the chapter some/most of the advice is outdated”

    It’s also widely known that – in the world of casting vision for ministry – Aubrey’s protege, Will Mancini, has now become the master.  So if you’re looking for a defining book on vision in the same style and vein as Aubrey, pick up Will Mancini’s “Church Unique”

    With all that said, there were some bright spots in Developing a Vision for Ministry by Aubrey Malphurs.  As a “next-generation” pastor, I do find a connection to leadership models that are described as being more “flat”, but the longer I am in leadership in ministry, the longer I have realized that “flat” leadership is not only unproductive but unbiblical.  I appreciate Aubrey’s passion to communicate the need for Point Leadership with a God-inspired vision.

    Having now served in vocational ministry for over a decade, I do wish I had read this book early in my days of ministry to have been warned of the “dark side” of leading in the ministry setting.  Describing these situations is something Aubrey does a very good job with – remaining biblical and simply stating the facts without coming off as a “negative Nancy.” In fact, as I was reading this book, there were many times I would flashback to previous times in ministry.

    There are also other things that I found to be points with which I found either interesting or points that I resonated with. Here they are in no particular order:

    • an organization can sustain only a single ministry vision.  Most often a ministry with multiple visions ends with a split.
    • Today’s emphasis on coleadership, especially in the church where it is known as lay elder rule, attempts to be biblical but most likely is an overreaction to leadership by a single tyrant or despot, or in some cases to weak or unskilled professional leadership.  Not only is there a problem with finding a biblical foundation for coleadership, the greater problem is that people cannot follow a group.
    •  A church or parachurch ministry’s vision begins with and is the primary responsibility of the point person.
    • Cutting edge organizations are characterized by a whirlwind of activity and catalysmic change
    • There are “squeaky wheels” with solutions, but their solutions are characteristically out of touch with the ministry and its times…Visionary leaders are completely different from squeaky wheels
    • If people do not understand the vision, then in effect there is no vision.
    • [Other leaders] role is to follow the visionary’s leadership, aid in developing the dream, rally support behind it, and pass it on to as many people as possible.
    • Character is the foundation of Christian leadership….If the character is flawed in some way, then the ministry will be flawed proportionately.
    • …leadership is about comping with change, while management is about coping with complexity.
    • If an environment has not been established where people have freedom to fail then people will not take risks, and the ministry will either plateau or decline.
    • Human sources of discouragement
      • Vision vampires…well intentioned Christians who sincerely believe they are correct in opposing the vision…see themselves as courageous defenders of the faith rather than defenders of the status quo, for many of them confuse the status quo with the faith.
      • Vision vultures…people who like things the way they are, because they feel so intimidated and threatened by change
      • Vision firemen…when they hear of a good vision, run and grab the nearest fire hose to put it out…they are pure managers in leaderhip positions who do not properly understand leadership and its relationship to management…they feel threatened by innovative dreams and beleve it is in their vested interest to protect the institution from change rather than to work with leaders to procure change.
    • If the person who differs with the ministry leader is also a leader, then a decision will have to be made as to whether or not that person should stay with the ministry or pursue that which is closer to his philosophy in another ministry.
    • Some people in ministry organizations are well-intentioned troublemakers.  They work their way up through the ranks of a ministry organization until they reach a leadership position.  They appear to be loyal to the ministry and are very faithful to it.  In the church they are people who carry a Bible and are present at all the meetings of the church.  They give regularly and show up on church workdays…however, these people have a different vision with a different agenda.  They manifest themselves through their constant opposition to the visionary leader and the vision.  It becomes obvious that he will not be able to lead them.  This is because ultimately they, like Diotrephes in 3 John 9, want to control the organization.

    So…with all that said, if you are new to ministry or trying to sort out whether or not God is calling you to ministry, this book has some really great practical skills for not only finding God’s vision for your ministry, but it clearly gives you pragmatic – super practical advice – for how to handle opposition to vision and what that will look like in ministry.

    For those who have been in ministry for over 5 years, you will most likely read this book and cringe in remembrance of the times you faced opposition to vision, or even how poor execution of leading with vision effectively came back to impact you and your ministry negatively.

  • Book Review: You Lost Me: Why Young Christians Are Leaving Church and Rethinking Faith

    DISCLAIMER: If you are a follower of Christ- who is already going to heaven – and talk about changing the traditions which define the methods of the “church” (lower case “c” on purpose) irritates you, you’ll definitively not appreciate this book…just sayin’ 🙂

    …we must be honest enough with ourselves to determine where our allegiance is merely cultural (like first-generation immirants) rather than biblical

    – pg 56 “You Lost Me”

    I had been waiting what seems like forever to get my hands on David Kinnaman’s new book, You Lost Me: Why Young Christians Are leaving Church…And Rethinking Faith.  Almost as long as I have been waiting for an opportunity to share my thoughts on the book.

    Before I talk about this book, I should share that most of my excitement for reading this book comes from 2 reasons.

    1. Reading Unchristian (see my review here) totally blew me away
    2. My heart personally is deeply invested in seeing people live an engaged life as Christ Follower – and the question “How do we reach the next generation with the Gospel” is a question that is constantly on my mind.

    I’ve been joking with my fellow staff members that one of these days I’m gonna write a book for people I like to define as those who are going through a “Quarter-Life Crisis.”  Not because I am making fun of them or seeing them as a project to fix, but because they have a special place in my heart.  For one of the reasons, this book is timely.

    Young Christians are leaving the church – but they are not necessarily leaving Jesus.  This is what I have seen.  This is what You Lost Me affirms through its research.

    This should not be.

    Not for the sake of the institution that is the church in the western world – it’s for the sake of biblical mission.  If the local expression of God’s fellowship of believers is to remain a witness for Christ in their community then making sure the next generation is reengaged in church is important. If it is God’s design that the changing power of the Gospel is to find great effectiveness through what we have defined as the local church – then making sure the next generation not only finds value in staying engaging in church but finds meaning and purpose by being a part of it is mission-critical.

    Maybe I am old school. Maybe I am naive to believe that the church can become not only something followers of Christ live to be a part of, but even become martyrs to defend, then this is important.

    There is soooo much in this book.  I can’t even begin to scratch the surface of all that this book is, but I will share some of my favorite parts.

    • the cultural setting in which young people come of age is significantly changed from what was experienced during the formative years of previous generations…we …must commit ourselves to understanding our culture today to be effective translators of faith to the next generation.  We must come to grips with the challenges and with the opportunities for the gospel to advance.
    • I am concerned that too many Mosaic Christians are so interested in pursuing the good, the true, and the beautiful that they forget to acknowledge and draw near to the source of those pursuits – Jesus.
    • …only a traditionalist would argue that all talk about sex is vulgar
    • How would the church be different if we were to reject exclusion as unacceptable and tolerance as not good enough?
    • The generation gap is growing, fueled in part by technology, so it takes extra effort to be on the same page.
    • New churches must be formed where all believers are expected to do the work of evangelism and discipleship.  This generation sees the potency of a church where pastors equip and shepherd disciple-makers rather than service-attenders.
    • (1) the church needs to reconsider how we make disciples; (2) we need to rediscover Christian calling and vocation; and (3)we need to reprioritize wisdom over information as we seek to know God.

     As I look over these bullet points I feel that I I am not even doing the book justice.  If you are a statistics junkie (I am not) there’s tons of info based on their research that you’ll love.  If you’re the type that doesn’t like books related to Christianity that are devoid of biblical passages and teachings on them – you’ll find plenty of that as well.

    I do not feel the need to go into all of the book – after all this is a review, not a summary.  If I could give a summarizing statement, it would have to be from the book itself.

    …the Christian community must rethink our efforts to make disciples.  Many of the assumptions on which we have built our work with young people are rooted in modern, mechanistic, and mass production paradigms.
    …We need new architects to design interconnected approaches to faith transference.  We need new ecosystems of spiritual and vocational apprenticeship that can support deeper relationships and more vibrant faith formation.  We need to recognize the generational shfts from left-brain skills like logic, analysis, and structure to the right-brain aptitudes of creativity, synthesis, and empathy.  We need to renew our catechisms and confirmations-not because we need new theology, but because their current forms too rarely produce young people of deep, abiding faith.  We need to rethink our assumptions and we need the creativity, honest, and vitality of the next generation to help us.

    Pick the book up.  You may not agree with all of it, but you’d be hard-pressed to not feel engaged by it and challenged to rethink the difference between defining the end result of Christian discipleship and defining the methods by which you have been exposed to and embrace for Biblical discipleship.

  • Change doesn’t care…

    Change doesn’t care…

    • if you don’t like it
    • if you are not ready for it
    • if it goes against everything you’ve been taught to believe
    • if it defies everything you’ve experienced

    Don’t believe me?  Take a look at this article about the speed of light.

    Speed of light broken by scientists

    As you’ll see in one of the comments, it was said by Einstein himself,

    “There are two things that are infinite, the size of the universe and the stupidity of man, and I am not sure of the former.”

    Life is full of changes – or as I like to say, “Modified decisions/situations based on new information.”  Or maybe it’s not “change” per se.  Maybe it’s having your paradigm challenged.  Maybe it’s being confronted with the reality the that life you lived is not the life you are living now.

    I’m not trying to convince you to be comfortable with change or to completely buy in that living a life with a culture of continual change is a thing that all people need to do.  What I am saying is that change is inevitable and if we spend more time navigating through change effectively instead of being paralyzed by it then we would be better for it.

    How have you navigated change effectively?

    How have you allowed change to negatively affect you?

    James 4:14, Matthew 6:27

  • Book Review: Switch by Chip and Dan Heath

    Point #1. You need to buy/read this book

    The subtitle of Chip and Dan Heath’s book, Switch, is “How to change things when change is hard.”  I first heard this book at the willow creek leadership summit I was at last year.  And after hearing a keynote address regarding this book, I knew I had to have it.  It wasn’t until borders went out of business did I get the book since it’s $26 price tag was not that all appealing.

    SO what do I think about this book?  Well, first of all – this book would have been worth the $26 if I hadn’t got it 75% off at the Borders going out of business sale.  Why?

    There isn’t quite anything that motivates me than the idea of change.

    Don’t ask me why.  I thought this was something that has developed over time as I grew as a leader and grew as a reader.  But after finding a grade school soliloquy I wrote entitled “Why is Change Hard?” I realized very quickly that I have always been a person open to change.  And why is that?  Because the belief that things can change – that things can be better than they are right now in the near future – is what motivates me to live.

    Because I live life from this paradigm I often see myself at the helm of movements for change, and my experience has been that…well…it’s hard to change things when change is hard.  This book has been not only VERY insightful, but very practical.  Micheal Hyatt does a good job giving you the bullet points of the book here, so I’m not going to waste my time to repeat them.  Instead, I’ll give you some of my favorite quotes.

    • 3 Surprising things about change
      • What looks like a people problem is often a situation problem
      • What looks like laziness is often exhaustion
      • What looks like resistance is often a lack of clarity
    • SMART goals (Specific, Measurable,  Actionable, Relevant, and Timely) presume the emotion. In looking for a goal that reaches the Elephant – that hits people in the gut – you can’t bank on SMART goals.
    • When you think about the people whose behavior needs to change, ask whether they would agree with this statement: “I aspire to be the kind of person who would make this change.”
    • Everything looks like a failure in the middle [of change]
    • Fundamental Attribution Error…our inclination to attribute people’s behaviors to the way they are rather than to the situation they are in.

    Seriously…there is so much good stuff in this book.  I highly recommend this book no matter who you are or what you do for a living.  If you desire to make any difference in the world, that means change.  And if you want to navigate change effectively, I believe the principals in this book are irrerplaceable.

  • What to do when “Who You Are” is not “Who You Were”

    I knew a guy who had a problem.  He had really turned his life around – really.  The problem was, no one believed that who he now was could be possible because he had built such a long history of himself based on who he was.

    Check his story out here.

    Can you relate?

    If you are a follower of Christ, you have the awesome opportunity to be a person who the Lord is continually “transforming” (Romans 12). The problem is – that even those close to you – will sometimes see you in the light of who you were instead of who you now are.

    My Advice?

    Be patient with those who may not see the changes for good that God has done in your life. Yes, you may be different and God sees you for who you are, but people are people. They do not have the benefit of seeing as the Lord sees. And for some, they will never have the capacity of forgiveness that the Lord has and will always see you for who you were.

    1 Thessalonians 2:4
    On the contrary, we speak as men approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our hearts.

  • Book Review: A Million Miles in a Thousand Years by Donald Miller

    It’s not very often I pick up a book and read from cover to cover in one sitting. This time I did. All 255 pages of it. ok…I guess I did stop to make myself some ramen noodle soup, but other than that I was completely overwhelmed by Donald Miller’s new book.

    The truth is that I have a copy of his older book, Blue Like Jazz, but have never finished it. It wasn’t that it wasn’t good, it just didn’t overwhelmed me to finish it. I think I’m going to back and finish reading that book too.

    I guess it wouldn’t be too much to say that Donald Miller is probably one of the best story tellers I’ve come across in a while. I haven’t been this mesmerized by an authors ability to pain pictures with words since I read Wilson Rawls’ Where the Red Fern Grows as a child. Why? Simply put, he tells a good story.

    In the opening of his book, Donald writes this:

    “…if what we choose to do with our lives doesn’t make a story meaningful, it won’t make a life meaningful either.”

    A Million Miles in a Thousand Years basically is set on explaining this principle. From sharing stories of how he when through the painstaking process of rewriting his life for a movie, to falling for a girl with a cute nose during a grueling trek through the mountains to Machu Picchu, he somehow inspires you to live for something more. And subtly yet profoundly her establishes that this is best understood in living the life of biblical faith.

    So what would I say about this book? Probably what Max Lucado said when asked to submit a review of the book… “I already want to re-read this book.”

  • Chick-Fil-A and Culver’s

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    In two weeks I leave the wonderful state of Florida to be part of the “Frozen Chosen!”  I had a friend of mine on facebook talking about fried cheese curds and it got me thinking about food (which isn’t a hard thing).

    So I thought to myself, “What am I going to miss about Florida, and what am I looking forward to in MN?”  The next few posts will be dedicated to what I will miss about Florida and what I’l look forward to in MN.

    What I’ll miss:  Chick-Fil-A

    I will miss your sweet tea, Chick-Fil-A

    I will miss your perfectly fried Chicken with no pickle and loads of ketchup and mayo.

    I will miss the waffle fries and the nuggets I steal borrow from my daughter’s stash while mom isn’t looking.

    I will miss sharing the 0.99 soft serve ice cream with my wife.

    What I look forward to: Culver’s

    I look forward to your original root beer, Culver’s

    I look forward to your equally unhealthy butter burgers that drip of grease and butter goodness.

    I look forward to eating fries and substituting fries for fried cheese curds because I have already given into the fact I won’t be eating “healthy” here.

    I look forward to sharing a cup of frozen custard goodness with my wife again and my children who only think custard comes in a donut.